The impact of divorce: emotions, life organisation, possessions and finances
You as a divorce coach. Necessary skills and knowledge
What a divorce coach does, and what they don’t do.
Understanding the client’s behaviour and attitudes
Conflict management
Effective communication in divorce
The emotional aspects of divorce band how to deal with them
The emotional stages of divorce: surprise, through shock, to anger and acceptance
Therapy versus mentoring. The different roles
Remote contact or face-to-face?
One-to-one.
Group sessions.
The free initial call.
Weekly or bi-weekly coaching.
Group coaching calls: Eight hours of group time with me in weekly group coaching calls, where we review the key elements for the week ahead and you can ask any of your questions. Each call is approximately one hour.
Understanding the TFAR chain
Time out.
Terminating the sessions
The tailor-made divorce plan
Building confidence and self-esteem
Building a support network
Identifying repeated cycles of behaviour
Moving on. Re-entering the dating world.
Topical creams, oils and lotions. Balms, salves and liniments.
Future proofing future relationships. Pre-nups. Understanding and finding the ideal soul mate
Flaws for the client to be aware of, in themselves and others.
The impact of divorce on the child’s
The emotional stages of divorce for children
Supporting children through divorce
Dealing with in-laws
How to structure each session. Useful tools.
Goals: POSERS or SMART
Filters: VAK(OG)
Modelling/ Milton System
TOTE
Time Lines
Frames
Techniques to help the client manage their emotions. Stress reduction
Breakup Recovery Retreats
Understanding the client’s finances
Identifying assets
Splitting assets
Pricing your services
Getting paid
Keeping client files
The legal form of your practice
Your business name
Keeping the books, your accountant, and paying tax
Liaising with other professionals
The different ways to market your business
Creating a website. Online appointment booking
The importance of networking
Divorce lawyers. Divorce websites
Publishing promotional material
Where to advertise
Using social media as a marketing tool
Ebook, tips
• Editable client and business forms, checklists and guides.
• Assets guide.
• ‘How to price your services’ document
• Sample list of services and price list
• Affirmations and epigrams for your clients
• Calming hypnotherapy audio files
• Software list for the divorce coach (including calendar booking)
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