When your Pet is dying

Pet bereavement is a topic that we all avoid, and I feel a lump in my throat, even as I write this. But there is no gentle way of addressing this issue. It is reality, and something that all pet owners have to face, eventually. So, let’s take a look at possible ways of coping with a dying pet.

What you can do

You need to face the reality of the situation. If it has been medically confirmed that your pet is dying, there is nothing you can do to reverse the process. However, there are so many things that you can do, and those should become the need of the moment.

• Make them Comfortable: Every pet has a favourite place where they feel comfortable. Ensure that your pet has easy access to this place.

• Familiar Objects: Ensure that your pet is surrounded with familiar objects that give them comfort like a pet chew for a dog, a toy mouse for a cat, or even a favourite cushion or stuffed toy.

• In case of Blindness: It is highly likely in the case of elderly pets that blindness has set in. Under such circumstances, you need to ensure that the area is clear of obstructions. Avoid moving furniture to different locations.

• Quality Time Spent: Spend as much time as possible with your pet, making it feel loved and needed. You can also extend this time to other family members who would like to pay their respects to the pet that they too have come to love.

• To touch or not to touch: A dying animal frequently dislikes being touched, so if your pet shows signs of discomfort, so not feel discouraged, it is just the way with animals and you should not feel offended. You can however, wipe the body with a hot, moist cloth which simulates the soothing effect of the wet tongue of another animal.

• Pet Bereavement Counsellors: These people are specialised in guiding pets and their owners through the dying and bereavement process. If you feel that you are overburdened with all that is happening, pet bereavement counsellors can assist you. They will also help you with cremation, burial, memorial services and so on.

Most Important

Last but not the least, remember – your pet is passing on to a better place, and will be at peace there. Your duty is to prepare your pet for the journey, as a last, loving gesture for all the wonderful times it has given you in its lifetime.